Then, whether your above was an excellent 5-section formula for success, just what possibility carry out Brazilian/Gringo couples features of ‘and work out a go from it’? WARNING: everything I am planning to say includes sweeping unverified generalizations!
Let’s take desire and knowledge. How do Brazilian females match up with your typical western gringo male? I’d say that Brazilian women are generally very warm and caring, and tactile, and ‘wear their hearts on their sleeves’. Gringo males on the other hand can appear cool and aloof. You won’t always know what they are thinking, and they don’t necessarily smile a lot. Their sense of humor can be sarcastic, which doesn’t always play well to a Brazilian crowd. And then there’s the language barrier – unless you speak each other’s language well, you may have difficulty expressing yourself as you intended (or accidentally call some enormous meat-head a cafejeste thinking it meant malandro, as I did once!) – so it can be easy to cause offence. What starts out as an exciting delve into the unknown of meeting someone from a different culture, can quickly cool into thinking the other person doesn’t understand you or really care. Brazilian females also have quite a short fuse. The gringo male quickly needs to learn to deal with it, and the same approach won’t work for every girl. You need to dig a little deeper into the psyche…
The same applies when it comes to attitudes, wants and you may thinking. Given the different cultures, these can vary hugely. If you are from a devoutly religious background, are very close to your (large!) family, and want to get married and have children sooner rather than later, then is an agnostic, independent world-traveler who rarely sees his parents and wider family, and is willing to move to yet another country to further his career really the right person for you? Maybe yes. Opposites do attract after-all, and if he’s never had a family he could feel close to, then he may love hanging out with yours. But you’ve a lot of issues to work through at some point…
Considering I’m a beneficial gringo male, I will run relationships anywhere between Brazilian lady and you can gringo males – however, I imagine far enforce if the jobs are corrected
Conscientiousness. Can I even spell the word? I guess this is about whether you are a serious person. The Brits and Germans do serious very well. Brazilians on the other hand…I guess it comes down to what part of the country you are from. Paulistanos seem to be very different from Cariocas in this regard – at least that’s what the Cariocas tell me! What exactly are you expecting from your future life partner? To stay home and look after the kids and have a meal ready for you every night? Or to get out and work for 14 hours a day? But if one of you is working 14 hours a day and the other isn’t… you are going to be beating to two entirely different drums.
Psychological balances…I think it best I avoid this subject…other than to say, we can beat to different drums in more ways than one!
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Effort – recognizing that relationships require both of you to work at them. Which implies that you each need to be a little flexible, and learn to fit in with the other’s routine, be it letting them do their own thing occasionally (e.g. going off to play golf!), or attending all their friends’ birthday parties. What it doesn’t mean is that you try and change a fish into a race-horse, or conversely have to abandon your natural sense of self and self-respect and bend over backwards to accommodate your partner’s every need and whim. If you can’t view each other as being on equal terms in most respects, then respect is what will suffer. I don’t think this is any different than for couples from the same country. It’s just that you are probably starting from spaces much further apart.